As I’m sure we all know about relationships, communication is key. But, it’s not just important that you know TO communicate. It’s also important that…
Month: September 2020
Can We Want What We Already Have?
In the famous words of Ariana Grande, “I want it. I got it.” But, what happens afterward? Can you want something you already have? Can…
Assumptions
Mind reading. Assuming. Catastrophizing the outcome. We do these things all of the time. We read our environment and our partner’s reactions and we make…
Keeping the Excitement
After receiving some feedback from my previous post, I heard a few ask me one question that seemed present for their relationship at this time….
The 7 Year Itch
It all starts the same. Infatuation. Admiration. The feeling of little butterflies we get in our stomach when we first start a relationship. We generally…
Tit for Tat
It wasn’t until I got married and became a mother that I began to realize the importance that fairness has in my life. I came…
Gridlock Versus Dialogue
What often happens when you have an argument? Are you able to hear your partner’s point of view? Do you feel your conversation ends successfully?…
Nurture Your “Thing”
What’s your thing? What’s that main connecting point that always brings you and your partner back to one another? Is it a similar interest? A…
Pick Your Problems
When you choose your partner, you are choosing a specific set of problems that you are likely to have in your relationship for the next…